If there are only two options exist in love, which one would you prefer;
He/She loves you but you don't love him or You love him/her but he/she does not love you?
If you choose the second one, who would it be?
I can still remember people's reaction when I ask them this question.
It was December 2003 when I ask this person. He looked so confused and asked me back the question. With a very serious tone of voice, I answered:
You. Then he suddenly said, Oh me? Ok, my mom.Oh... So, um... he thought that I was asking him back? -_-" God! But of course!! What answer should I be expecting from a junior high school student, right? Haha
Anyway, I always choose the latter. Why? Oh, its pretty simple. I'm selfish. You know, there might be a possibility that he will love me, right? and we will be happy together or if not, I can at least pretend that he does. :D Oh my, yeah yeah, it sounds stupid.
But I think it is definitely better than having someone who loves me so much, but I can't give anything at all in return. Receiving something but you can't even give what he deserve, its unfair to his part considering the feelings and the effort. And because, it is simply, very painful... for the two of us. Don't you think so?
How about you, which one would you choose? Why?
I better choose the first one.. coz I just experience the second choice for the second time..
ReplyDeletebut its a long story.. Not at first that she doesnt love me..
For my other friend who just experienced the second choice, which also fails... and now his in a relationship that starts with the first one..
He said.. at first he really didn't fall in love to that girl.. but time goes by they begin to develope.. blah blah thats it >_<
weee amards chello ai :D
Haha! thought youre not going to read this, its quite long..
ReplyDeleteWow! you have the same answer with my mom and sis XD well, I guess it will work as long as you are the type that fall in love eventually... ^_~
uh huh... cguro ari lng ko sa blogspot man emo2 diay noh? hahahah naa man ko mga blogs ug photoblogs sa multiply nako.. pero majority mga hobbies. heheh
ReplyDeletedrop by nya chello.
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n_n arigato~
am waiting for my hair to dry. am not thinking of anything but somethings bothering.. i can tell i'll cry later before going to sleep. urrrgh i dont want to think. i guess its some of my dead memories.
ReplyDeleterest lang sa niel..It must be because of the memories... I think it is better for you to respect the process of moving on, yaw lang dali dalia na maok na dayon ka.. para later on, if everything's back to normal, you will be completely good.. :)
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